I just ordered a copy of what may end up being a seminal study of America’s evolution – Coming Apart – by Charles Murray. I was alerted to this by an excellent editorial (America’s Two Tribes) in the New York Times by David Brooks that summarized Murray’s work.
First, a word of background. The growing divide between rich and poor has been a burr under my saddle for a while. My more liberal colleagues see something inherently evil in it. I don’t, particularly when the remedies proposed essentially amount to confiscation in the name of “Fairness.” However, I sensed that there was something unhealthy lurking behind the statistics. I had finally concluded that it wasn’t the disparity in incomes but rather the separation within the community that the disparity produced that was unhealthy. It wasn’t that the rich are evil and the poor the modern version of “Noble Savages,” but rather that the two were no longer communicating. And a community that is not communicating within itself is asking for nasty surprises – and is not very resilient.
Enter Murray. He portrays an America with a vast divide between the richer 20% and the poorer 30%. The richer typically live lives straight out of the ‘50’s (yes, kiddies, I remember the ‘50’s). Almost everyone in the 30-49 year old cohort works. Illegitimacy is rare (7%). Parents work too hard – at everything, including parenting.
The poorer live lives that are increasingly disconnected from the community. More and more are leaving the workforce, even in good times. Almost half of their children are illegitimate. To quote Brooks, they are “less likely to get married, less likely to go to church, less likely to be active in their communities, more likely to watch TV excessively, more likely to be obese.”
The one thing they both share is that they are unlikely to come into meaningful contact with each other. The richer live in quiet, clean, safe neighborhoods that reflect their essentially conservative values. The poorer live in noisy neighborhoods, where the trash may not be picked up, and they may not venture outside their doors too often out of fear. It is hard to become involved in community, or even personally productive, in these circumstances.
Brooks goes on to show how Murray’s work contradicts the myths of both the left and the right. I won’t go into that, but recommend it to you iconoclasts in this political season.
You may have noticed that I referred to three tribes in the title, not two. The reason, of course, is that both Murray and Brooks ignore the Third Tribe – the vast middle. Fearing a fall into the poorer, but dreaming of joining the richer, this tribe is the essential glue that must hold the other two together. But even here, we find disturbing trends. A recent study found that the rate of upward mobility is slowing down, and the number who go from the middle to the very rich is dwindling. Our educational systems are downplaying and in some cases eliminating the national and community mythologies that can bind a community together. As a nation, we are engaging in more “anti-social” – anti-community – behavior – too many activities that don’t involve direct interactions with others. And many of the Great Middle are turning inward because of unemployment or underemployment or wages that are lower than a decade ago, another toxic residue of the Great Recession.
Ultimately, money is neither the cause nor the solution to this splintering of communities; it merely facilitates the process. But how do we reverse the process?
I’m afraid there are no easy answers. However, I think we do know what victory looks like. It is a community in which even the poor feel a stake in its future. It is a community where everyone sees the entire community, the same community, both the good and the not so good. It is not a Community Triumphant smug in its righteousness, nor a Community Suffering with no confidence in its future, but rather a Community Militant that employs its strengths to shore up its weaknesses and to create a better future for all.
With that vision, there are several paths to take. Breaking down the barriers that retard social mobility are important. As the poor rise, they can bring the memories of what they’re escaping with them. As the rich fall, they can bring their work ethic and sense of community with them. Developing common myths – stories about the community that reinforce its uniqueness and its unity – are important. Fostering activities that all of the tribes will participate in is important. Encouraging the poorer to get involved in their neighborhoods, encouraging the richer to get outside their enclaves and to see the world through others’ eyes are important.
This splintering of America threatens to unravel the fabric of our communities. Murray (and Brooks) have performed a valuable service by holding up a mirror for us to see what we’re becoming. It is up to us to act on what we’ve seen.

