Last week I read an interesting article by Karen Reivich on the resilience of children. I was struck by how relevant her seven ingredients were to communities. So, with apologies to her for my modifications – the Seven Ingredients of Community Resilience.
The first ingredient is trust. For children, this means being aware of their emotions and being able to share them with people they trust. For communities, it is building trust so that everyone can speak honestly and openly about their values, their hopes, their concerns and their community.
The second ingredient is impulse control. Resilient children have developed a “stop and think” mechanism that helps them overcome the urge to act on their impulses. (Some of us are still working on that!) Resilient communities recognize that, after a disaster, there is a tremendous urge to get back to normal life quickly. Thus, these communities develop a vision and goals and sometimes even an action plan prior to a disaster to guide the thousands of individual actions that their members will take after it occurs.
Resilient children and resilient communities both have “realistic optimism.” They are able to recognize that things are less than perfect, but nevertheless have an upbeat belief that things will get better. For both children and communities, this optimism breeds health, effectiveness, and the ability to look at things honestly – what Nikos Kazantzakis calls “staring into the abyss.”
Closely allied with realistic optimism is the fourth ingredient – self-confidence. Both resilient children and communities are aware of their strengths and of their ability to use them. They both recognize that they can not only cope with adversity but can effect change as well.
The next ingredient is empathy – the ability to make meaningful connections with others. Anyone who has followed the work of Rick Weil looking at recovery after Katrina recognizes that community connections – both the strong ones inside the community and the weaker ones to the outside world – may be even more important for recovery than material resources.
Just as realistic optimism and self-confidence are closely aligned, so are the last to ingredients – reaching out and flexible thinking. By reaching out, Reivich means a willingness to try new things. For communities, this implies an openness to innovative approaches to solve wicked problems. Flexible thinking is the ability to look at things from different perspectives. For communities this implies not only a willingness to consider new ideas, but an innate interest in getting the whole picture, not just that from the leader’s perch.
Mix these ingredients with a generous amount of community involvement and bake in the passion of people who care about their community. All in all, a good recipe for a resilient community.


